As a paramedic, you’ve likely experienced this scenario: You arrive on scene to find a pulseless, non-breathing patient. Someone mentions they’re in hospice care and “don’t want anything done,” but there’s no paperwork visible. What do you do? Start resuscitation? Wait? This ethical and legal dilemma represents one of the most anxiety provoking aspects of prehospital care.

Understanding the Forms

Advanced directives encompass several documents that outline a patient’s medical wishes:

IMPORTANT CLARIFICATION: Not all hospice patients are DNR/DNI. While the vast majority of hospice patients choose to be DNR/DNI, it is not a requirement for hospice enrollment. The primary criterion for hospice is a prognosis of six months or less, regardless of code status.

When the Grey Areas Emerge

The most challenging scenarios typically involve:

1. Missing Documentation

When family or caregivers report a DNR exists but no form is present, protocol typically dictates beginning resuscitation. However, consider:

2. Family Wishing to Override Documentation

When legally designated decision-makers want to override existing DNR orders:

3. Facility Staff Uncertainty

When responding to facilities where staff seem uncertain or uncomfortable with the patient despite what the goals of care form states:

Communication Approaches That Work

When faced with these situations, several communication techniques prove effective:

  1. Explore illness understanding: “What’s your understanding of their medical condition? How has their condition changed in recent weeks/months?” This provides an opportunity to align their understanding with the current reality before discussing interventions.
  2. Explore the context in which the form was created: Begin by asking questions about how the form came to be- “Can you tell me about when this form was completed? What discussions led to these decisions?”
  3. Discuss quality of life: “What has their quality of life been like recently? What would a quality day look like for them? When was the last time they had that kind of quality day?”
  4. Be compassionately direct: “I’m concerned your loved one is dying. What should we focus on if their time is short?”
  5. Acknowledge emotions: “I can see this is difficult. What worries you most right now? What are you worried might happen?” Family members are often experiencing intense emotions. Naming emotions can help family members process their feelings and potentially align with the documented wishes.
  6. Offer recommendations based on goals: “Based on what you’ve told me about their wishes, may I recommend a plan? Would it be helpful if I suggested a plan that aligns with their wishes?Based on what you’ve told me about what’s important to your loved one, and what I’m seeing medically, I’d recommend…” Combine your understanding of their goals with your medical expertise.

Balancing Protocol with Compassion

For Critical Situations- when time is limited and a patient appears to be actively dying:

Remember that protocols exist for a reason. When in doubt, err on the side of resuscitation—but don’t hesitate to contact medical direction. Your medical knowledge combined with good communication skills allows you to:

  1. Understand what the patient would want
  2. Recommend a plan that aligns with those wishes
  3. Support family members through difficult decisions

Protocols provide guardrails, not handcuffs. They help reduce the emotional burden when decisions are unclear while allowing room for clinical judgment when the situation becomes clearer.

When Documentation is Absent

When responding to a scene where family reports a patient is DNR/DNI but no documentation is present:

  1. Gather as much information as possible about the patient’s condition and wishes
  2. Consider the entire clinical picture, including evidence of terminal illness
  3. Contact medical direction for guidance
  4. If resuscitation is initiated, continue reassessing its appropriateness
  5. Document all decision-making processes thoroughly

Remember that protocols exist for a reason. When in doubt, err on the side of resuscitation—but don’t hesitate to contact medical direction. Your medical knowledge combined with good communication skills allows you to:

  1. Understand what the patient would want
  2. Recommend a plan that aligns with those wishes
  3. Support family members through difficult decisions

Protocols provide guardrails, not handcuffs. They help reduce the emotional burden when decisions are unclear while allowing room for clinical judgment when the situation becomes clearer.

The Palliative Care Distinction

It’s important to understand that palliative care and hospice are not synonymous:

As an EMS provider, you may encounter patients anywhere along this spectrum. Your ability to provide symptom management can be invaluable, particularly when hospice providers cannot respond immediately to symptom crises.

Medication Management: Bridging the Gap

Many 911 calls for hospice patients occur because symptoms cannot be adequately managed with the patient’s available oral medications. In these situations, EMS providers can serve as a critical bridge by providing parenteral medications until the hospice nurse arrives or the patient regains the ability to take oral medications.

Common Symptoms Requiring Intervention:

  1. Pain Management:
    • IV opioids can provide rapid relief when oral medications are insufficient
    • Consider reduced dosing in opioid-naïve patients while recognizing that hospice patients may have significant opioid tolerance
    • Titrate to comfort while monitoring respiratory status, especially in end-of-life care where comfort is the priority
  2. Nausea/Vomiting:
    • Ondansetron (Zofran) IV/IM for general nausea
    • Haloperidol (Haldol) for opioid-induced nausea or refractory cases (commonly used in hospice care)
    • Promethazine or metoclopramide per protocol and medical direction
  3. Dyspnea:
    • Low-dose opioids can effectively manage air hunger and breathlessness
    • Consider benzodiazepines for associated anxiety per medical direction
    • Positioning and oxygen for comfort (regardless of saturation)
  4. Acute Anxiety/Agitation:
    • Benzodiazepines may be appropriate with medical direction
    • Gentle verbal reassurance and presence often invaluable

Treat in Place Approach:

When symptoms can be effectively managed on scene, the most appropriate intervention may be to:

  1. Provide parenteral medications for symptom control
  2. Contact medical direction for guidance on dosing and treatment plan
  3. Coordinate with the responding hospice nurse
  4. Document a patient refusal after symptoms are controlled
  5. Ensure clear handoff to hospice staff or family caregivers

This approach respects the patient’s wishes to remain at home while providing necessary symptom relief. Always work within your agency’s protocols and with online medical direction to ensure appropriate documentation and decision-making support.

Balancing Professional Judgement with Protocol

These situations require balancing clinical judgment with protocol adherence. Be mindful of:

Remember that transporting a patient to the hospital despite documented wishes is sometimes appropriate when symptoms cannot be managed in the home or when family members need additional support in decision-making.

Resources for Further Learning

For paramedics interested in developing these skills further:

Remember that these challenging scenarios represent opportunities to provide truly patient-centered care at life’s most vulnerable moments. By combining your medical expertise with thoughtful communication, you can help ensure patients’ wishes are honored while supporting families through difficult transitions.


This blog/podcast is intended for educational purposes only and should be used in conjunction with your agency’s protocols and medical direction.

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